From Isolation to Aspiration

When this young person was referred to Citywall, he had not been in school since Year 8 and rarely left the house. He was spending most of his time in his bedroom, day and night, gaming or on YouTube. Although he had been referred to other vocational placements over the years, his Autism Spectrum Condition and anxiety posed significant barriers and he had not been able to stick with them. His mum was very concerned about his lack of basis life skills, “real world” friends, and awareness around online safety.

Initially, he was very reluctant to leave his bedroom or speak to Citywall mentors at all – and why would he? He probably thought we would eventually get the message and leave him alone to his gaming. But after three years of consistently showing up, we have made it clear that we are patient and persistent, and on his side.

We now go for short walks, to cafes, libraries, and even Laser Quest, as well as cooking together. He clearly takes pride in his cooking and offers support when he sees that others are less confident. As he has become more self-aware, more assured of who he is and what he can do, this has been reflected beautifully in a growing understanding of the feelings and experiences of those around him.

In the last year, he showed a particularly strong interest in digital 3D modelling. We helped to connect him with Digital Advantage (DISC), a supported digital internship college, and he is now engaged on a tailored package to develop his animation skills. He is also learning to use public transport with our support.

It really is amazing to look back over the last three years and see the transformation. He is polite, thoughtful, chatty and confident, and we have seen a powerful shift in his mindset towards preparing for his future. We are excited to support him through a gradual transition into an internship at DISC and are incredibly proud of him.